The Zombie Marriage Is your marriage infected by the “zombie virus?”  Do you find your relationship to be the “walking dead?”  Are emotions lost and connections missing?  Do you and your spouse respond to each other with “zombie grunts?” The infection can be stopped.  You can fight the infection and heal the relationship. Don’t allow the big 4 […]
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Distraction or Traction? What gets in the way of you getting traction in your efforts to save your marriage? These days, there is one very substantial reason… one thing that keeps you (and many others) from making progress.  And it is only accelerating.  What is it? Distraction. Yep, it absolutely gets in your way, pulling you away from […]
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To-Do’s and To-Don’ts of Saving Your Marriage, Pt. 1 You want to save a marriage… but you may not be sure what to do.  And I guess it is also a question of what not to do. BOTH what TO do and what NOT TO do, are important.  So, let’s cover it!  In this episode, I cover 5 to-do’s and to-don’ts.  And in the next episode, […]
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The Pause Problem (and Solution) When did it happen?  When did your marriage’s trajectory head in the wrong direction? Probably long before you thought, long before you could see it.  Almost always, it is a conscious and unconscious collusion between the spouses.  And it makes sense.  Life… you have to get back to it! After all, you are now married, […]
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How You Deal with Negativity It happens.  In the middle of a marriage crisis, you can find yourself surrounded by negativity.  A spouse negative about the marriage.  Friends and family negative about your efforts to save your marriage.  You negative, well, about everything you are doing (it is easy to slip into self-blame and self-doubt). Negativity comes from several sources: […]
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