8 Things That Make You a Magnet for Narcissists
There are all kinds of narcissistic relationship dynamics, including couples, friends, parent/child, and family members (brother/sister, stepparent/parent, etc.), to name a few. I have experience in the parent/child dynamic. My dad is a narcissist. Common traits include constantly tearing down and criticizing others cruelly to make themselves feel better, blaming everyone else for their problems, and having a grandiose sense of self. My father exhibits all these traits. Narcissists look for people with specific traits to lure in and devour. What are those things? We're going to find out.What Is Narcissism?Let's start with: what is narcissism? This word gets thrown around a lot, but it's actually a mental illness. The proper term is "narcissistic personality disorder." According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, the definition of narcissistic personality disorder is a personality disorder characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, persistent need for admiration, lack of empathy for others, excessive pride in achievements, and snobbish, disdainful, or patronizing attitudes.What traits and behaviors of narcissists draw them to certain individuals?Common traits of narcissists that draw people to them are:-Charisma and confidence. Narcissists often give off charm and exhibit strong self-esteem, which can be attractive.-Manipulative tactics. They use techniques like gaslighting to manipulate those around them without the victim realizing.-Attention-seeking behaviors. Because narcissists crave attention, people surround them, which makes them appear attractive.-Denial of mistakes. Not owning up to mistakes can make them look competent, like they never make a mistake which can be attractive to some people.What traits attract narcissists?Photo credit: ©GettyImages/PixelsEffect
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